Pregnancy loss & miscarriage
There is often no ritual for this. No bereavement leave, no casseroles, sometimes nobody who even knew you were pregnant. Miscarriage, stillbirth, ending a wanted pregnancy for medical reasons, a loss early enough that other people struggle to count it — it is all real grief, and it is the work our clinicians do every week.
Most major insurances accepted.
Don’t see your plan? We sign new contracts a few times a year — ask during intake and we’ll let you know if yours is being added soon.
You don’t have to talk yourself into seeking help.
- •Grief that nobody around you seems to recognize as grief
- •Dread when someone else announces a pregnancy
- •Going back over what you ate, lifted, felt, or failed to notice
- •A body that still feels pregnant, or is still bleeding, while everyone else has moved on
- •Anger — at your body, your doctor, your partner, or yourself
- •Not knowing whether to try again, and not knowing how to decide
- •Due dates and anniversaries that arrive without warning
- •Feeling like you should be over it by now
If any of the above sounds like what’s happening for you — or someone you love — that’s a clinical signal, not a personality flaw. Our specialists treat it with the seriousness it deserves.
Care for the woman the standard system overlooks.
- ✓Miscarriage at any point in a pregnancy, including very early loss
- ✓Stillbirth and neonatal loss
- ✓Termination for medical reasons (TFMR)
- ✓Ectopic and molar pregnancy
- ✓Recurrent loss, including loss during fertility treatment
- ✓Pregnancy after loss, when the next one is mostly fear
- ✓Partners, who are usually treated as the support rather than the bereaved
Our approach to pregnancy loss & miscarriage.
Reproductive grief has features that general grief work tends to miss. There is no shared memory to draw on and often no one else who is mourning. The loss is frequently invisible to everyone but you, which means the ordinary supports — people asking how you are, time off, a funeral — never arrive. Our clinicians are trained specifically in this, so you will not spend your first sessions explaining why it hurts this much.
There is no timeline here and we will not impose one. Some women come the week it happens; others come two years later, when a second pregnancy or a due date brings it back. Both are the right time.
If you are pregnant again, that is its own kind of hard, and it is not the same as ordinary pregnancy anxiety. We treat it as its own thing rather than as recovery from the last loss.
From first call to first session.
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Someone who already knows this territory
You are matched with a clinician who works in reproductive loss specifically — not a generalist who will be learning alongside you.
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You set the pace
Some people need to tell the whole story in the first hour. Some need weeks before they can say the date out loud. Both are fine, and neither is a sign of how you are doing.
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Care that can change shape
If what you need shifts — grief work into pregnancy-after-loss support, or therapy alongside medication — that happens inside the same practice, with the same team.
Common questions about pregnancy loss & miscarriage.
It was only a few weeks. Does that really count?+
Yes. Grief does not scale to gestational age. Women who lose a pregnancy at five weeks are grieving a real future they had already begun living in, and early loss is one of the most common reasons women come to us. Nobody here will ask you to justify it.
How soon after a loss should I start therapy?+
Whenever you want to. There is no window you can miss. Some women reach out within days because the silence is unbearable; others come back months or years later when a due date, an anniversary, or another pregnancy brings it up. All of that is normal and all of it is workable.
I'm pregnant again and I'm terrified. Is that something you treat?+
Yes, and it deserves to be named as its own thing. Pregnancy after loss is not ordinary pregnancy anxiety — it is grief and fear running at the same time, often while everyone around you expects you to be celebrating. We work with this specifically.
Can my partner come, or get their own support?+
Both. Partners are frequently treated as the person holding everything together rather than as someone who also lost a pregnancy. We see partners individually and together.
Do you take insurance?+
We are in network with most major commercial plans, including BCBS, Aetna, Cigna and Optum / UnitedHealthcare. If you are not sure about your plan, our team verifies your benefits before your first session so there are no surprises.
Pregnancy loss & miscarriage is also referred to as miscarriage counseling, miscarriage therapy, pregnancy loss therapy, pregnancy loss therapist, reproductive grief, perinatal loss, stillbirth counseling, TFMR support, recurrent pregnancy loss, and therapy after miscarriage. Whatever you call it, our specialists treat it.
Often paired with this work.
Grief counseling
Loss work for pregnancy loss, reproductive grief, and the silent griefs the world doesn't acknowledge.
Fertility & family planning
Reproductive grief, IVF stress, secondary infertility, and pregnancy loss.
Pregnancy & perinatal mental health
Antenatal anxiety, prenatal depression, and the loneliness of a high-risk pregnancy.
Trauma & PTSD
Sexual trauma, betrayal, narcissistic abuse, IPV, birth trauma, PTSD — treated with EMDR, somatic, and trauma-informed CBT.
Ready to start?
Same-week availability, in-network with major insurance, and a specialist who actually treats pregnancy loss & miscarriage as their main work.